TY - BOOK AU - Martin,Terry L. AU - Doka,Kenneth J. TI - Men don't cry-- women do: transcending gender stereotypes of grief T2 - Series in death, dying, and bereavement, SN - 0876309945 PY - 2000/// CY - Philadelphia, Penn. PB - Brunner/Mazel KW - Grief KW - Bereavement KW - Psychological aspects KW - Death KW - Loss (Psychology) KW - Sex role KW - Stereotypes (Social psychology) N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 169-181) and index; Foreword / Therese A. Rando, Ph. D. -- Patterns of Grief -- Dissonant Responses -- Pathways to the Patterns -- Theoretical Basis for Patterns of Grief -- Personality as a Shaper of Patterns -- The Role of Gender -- Culture as a Shaping Agent -- Implications and Interventions -- Adaptive Strategies: Implications for Counselors -- Strategies for Self-Help and Intervention: The Need for Interventive Intentionality N2 - "Do men and women grieve differently? This new text offers a refreshing change from the popular gender stereotypes of grief, emphasizing that there are many healthy ways to cope with grief. Two specific patterns of grieving are examined: an intuitive pattern where individuals experience and express grief in an affective way (stereotyped as female); and an instrumental pattern where grief is expressed physically or cognitively (stereotyped as male). A third pattern representing a blending of these two is also introduced. The authors vehemently point out that such patterns are related to, but not determined by, gender, and each has distinct strengths and weaknesses."--Jacket ER -